I've written before about my own Young Women experience growing up.
"Young Women nirvana" as my YW President I'm serving with now reminds me.
It really was divinely special. A treasured time in my life that I makes my heart smile and get warm fuzzies every time I think about it.
After Carri died {Patty's daughter and one of "my girls" whom I loved}, the older girls from my YW group decided we weren't waiting for the next one of us to die before getting together again. So we planned the first of what I hope will be a lifetime of YW reunions.
This year was the first year of our reunion without Patty. It almost didn't happen. Life gets busy and schedules get crazy. But I refused to not have our reunion. I know that if I stop getting the girls together, she will let me have it on the other side someday. She wouldn't want us to stop laughing and loving each other just because she isn't here with us physically anymore.
And selfishly, I need them. I need these girls - women and mothers now - who molded me into who I am. I need to be reminded of who I was then. Of what I believed, knew, and cherished. I need to remember how much love one can feel when you see someone you don't talk to or hang out with but within seconds of just seeing their faces you smile and are filled with the most amazing friendship, non-judgmental hug, and love you could ever imagine. Call me corny or emotional {I am crying as I type} but it's true. These girls, this time in my life, my Patty, are some of my most sacred and treasured relationships and memories God has ever given me.
Enough blubbering.
I wanted to do something for everyone to say hi to Patty but not have anything too sad or pressured. I decided we'd meet at the cemetery and write Patty and Carri balloon messages. {And check on Carri's "animals"}Then go back to my parents' house for an ice cream sundae bar.
The view from the cemetery was heavenly. Truly breathtaking.
I guess it was a good thing that we were really small in numbers this
year because there is a helium shortage and I could only get 12 yellow
balloons at the store.
I wasn't too sure what I wanted to write... balloons just aren't big enough to convey how much love, the influence, and how much I miss my dear friends. I hope my meager words were felt in Heaven.
We laughed at the lone, non-conformist balloon trailing behind at its own pace. Typical Carri style!
We talked and laughed and stuffed our kids full of sugary Aggie ice cream for more than four hours! It was midnight when I finally left my Mom and Dad's house.
I love these girls more than words can ever express.
{Left to right: Kelsie, Kali, Rachel, Jamie, me, Molly, Kimmy}
{Left to right: Kali, Kelsie, Jamie, Rachel, Kimmy, me, Molly}
And next year EVERYONE better come!