I need to be Chinese. Really, read this article.
It might blow your mind of all parenting skills you'd ever hope to have, desire, and strive for. It just might explain why some cultures treat their elderly as the treasures they should while us Westerners give the old geezers the boot to just rot away, alone, and forgotten.
This article really made me question one, if I even know what my parenting style is or should be and two, if I need to throw it out the window and give the Chinese mothering style a try. That, or maybe we just need to get a piano.